Sometimes an easygoing guy is a great guy, and other times he's indifferent and apathetic about you. The longer you date, the easier it is to figure out which is which.
This is why I advocate multi-dating. Because the man who seems so great in the beginning can turn into a complete cad a few months in.
One woman I know dated a man whose online dating profile said something like: "easygoing, laid back and down-to-earth, treats everyone well."
He seemed that way early on, and on the surface.
Ultimately, he turned out to be indifferent, entitled, heartless, and quite cold. He planned a fishing trip for her birthday (because he liked to fish), and when that fell through because his friends weren't available for the trip, he skipped her birthday. He basically never said one word when her cat died. He essentially ghosted without saying anything after they'd been together many months.
Morale of the story is words are just words until they're backed up by the actions of a good man who is moving a relationship forward in the right way.
Have you ever dated an easygoing guy who turned out to be indifferent? Feel free to share your story below.
“The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.”
― Elie Wiesel
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