Don't Give Up

Tempted to give up? Are you sick and tired of the struggle?  As a dating and relationship coach, I hear from many women that they put themselves out there for one month and then they shut down again.
"All the men online are creeps," or "Going to events is a waste of time," or "I only attract losers," are some of the phrases I hear from women.  You won't get anywhere if you stop trying just because you hit a rough patch. Sure we all wish life was easy, and that our goals arrived exactly when WE wanted them to. But this is real life, and things don't always come to us on our time-table. I like to think that there is a divine time-table, and that things come to us when we are ready for them.  We have to let go and surrender to what the higher plan is. But meanwhile, we take actions and don't give up. We may change course, and talk to people, trying to figure out how to get to our goal faster, but we don't just shut down and stop fighting for what we want - whether we want a man, a career or anything else we are trying to achieve.