It's All About How You Make Him Feel
The women who are succeeding at finding and keeping their Mr. Forevers succeed at this one thing:
They know how to make their boyfriends and husbands feel good.
And it might not always be in ways you think.
They make him feel good inside, good about you and the relationship, and this is key: they make him feel like a man.
It goes beyond looks and sexual attraction, although those two things are necessary.
Too many women don’t get men. (Stay tuned on my upcoming book on this topic. I think it’s such an important subject, I am devoting an entire book to this).
While you are dating, it’s key to allow a man to court you. Making a man feel like he just scaled Mount Everest is crucial, and this key aspect is not well understood by most modern women.
Women also need to be happy - throughout the courtship process and beyond. A high quality guy can sense when you aren’t happy and he feels like crap. He feels like he can’t please you, and it’s frustrating for him. It means the world to him to know that he can make you happy.
When women don’t feel good inside, they can easily repel or lose a boyfriend or a husband. So ladies, make sure you don’t ignore your role in the equation. It’s not always the guy’s fault.
You may be getting out there, going on tons of blind dates and going out to events and swiping left and right all the time online, but nothing is clicking. If there is something off inside, it can push good men away.
Even if you are in a relationship, if he feels like something is off with you and the relationship, he may pull back.
He may not be able to put his finger on it, but it’s there, and it could be the reason he drags his heels on proposing or why he may not be as in love with you as he originally was when you first started dating.
He may love you, but just fear commitment because something feels off. He picks up on the fact that you aren’t happy or that he may not be making you happy. It just may be that you aren’t happy with yourself, and when that happens he thinks you are impossible to please.
You need to be self-assured on the inside - you need to love yourself, and no one, is going to do this for you. Not even your Mr. Forever.
Even if your prince comes in on his white horse and marries you, you won’t be happy if you aren’t already happy with yourself. Even if he showers you with love and adoration and roses and puts a big beautiful ring on it, if you aren’t feeling good about yourself, you could easily lose a good thing.
What you want is to be happy and fulfilled on your own, and then you will be able to attract, and keep, an equally healthy guy.
When you are happy and love yourself, without making it contingent on a guy, you will be able to have it all.
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