Letting the man take the lead in a relationship is hard for some modern women who are used to being aggressive in their careers and in every other way.
One thing you need to understand is that letting the man take the lead doesn't mean you're a doormat, nor does it mean you're passive.
You're easy to be with but you stand up for yourself if something is off. You work on your inner game and your outer game.
Work out. Get blowouts, manicures, pedicures, wax your eyebrows and everywhere else that needs it. Get lash extensions. Stay up on the latest fashions, and always look your absolute best.
Take massive actions to meet men - online dating, singles related events, fix-ups, and other ways.
Courtship is definitely not passive. It's about learning to receive from a man, seeing what he's capable of giving you. You keep your eyes open during the courtship process and evaluate his qualities to see if he's someone you can have a future with.
If you believe in courtship, you're smart because you understand how well it works. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise.
I give smart successful women tools to weed out time-wasters and teach them how to find their Mr. Rights.