Are you turning off men on the first date, without realizing what you are doing wrong? You can kill a good thing if you don’t understand men. When I was a matchmaker, I learned firsthand that it’s not enough to be beautiful. That helps, and that will draw men to you, but if you don’t have the right strategy down, a guy can lose his attraction pretty fast. Many gorgeous women don’t understand men well. They think that because they are gorgeous, that all men want them, and that is not necessarily the case. A man may think they are stunning, but all men have types and are drawn to specific types. Some men are attracted to the girl next door. I had a wealthy client who I set up with a beautiful model in her late 20s. He was attracted to her, but she turned him off during the date by being aggressive and controlling. After their first date at a swank NYC restaurant, he told me that he was turned off by several harsh statements, and by being interrogated about several things, including whether he wanted children. He said she turned him off because she came off as demanding and desperate (to him it felt like she was asking him, after one date, to have her child), and he was surprised I didn’t coach her better. I laughed because I do coach women not to reveal too much on Date Zero, and even beyond. But not all women are ready or willing to listen to the advice. Whether or not you are a model, you can have the man of your dreams if you follow the right dating strategy. Take it slow. Don’t ruin things on a Date Zero by revealing too much or being demanding or controlling. And don’t see a man every day for the first month. (This happens!) A slow courtship will get you much further than a marathon first meeting that lasts for hours, or days and then flames out as fast as it started. You can learn a ton more about a man through a slow courtship than by a fast one that begins with a first-date interrogation. If the relationship moves too swiftly, it crashes and burns fast and is no fun for you or the guy. Men love a little mystery. Of course there is more to it, and if you would like to learn more about how to put your best foot forward in the dating arena - on the inside and outside - contact Karenna by applying here or reply to this email: https://karenna1.typeform.com/to/YaF1PF |
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