Here's a funny dating story I think my single lady fans would appreciate. I know a lot of you single ladies are frustrated at times while searching for your Mr. Right. Just realize wacky and weird - as well as frustrating and disappointing - situations happen to everyone while dating. Even the bold and the beautiful. Those with stunning looks who have it all. No one is immune to boorish or immature men. Or men who are buyers beware. Or men who prefer a casual girlfriend to something deeper.
One gorgeous client told me a story that is so wacky, I thought I should share it, so you realize you aren't alone:
OK, so she was dating online and this man who was nearly 20 years older than her, and just average in every way, kept pestering her. Like for weeks. He seemed nice, but nothing sparked an interest, so she told him she wasn't interested. He continued to pester her and tell her funny jokes. Finally, she thought: "OK, what harm will one date do?" He does seem funny and nice.
So she agreed, and he was excited, and started to plan the date.
The problem was, he wanted her to drive an hour to his area to meet him at his favorite restaurant. She was like: "Sorry, it would be better if you met me here," referring to her area.
This lady is model gorgeous and the thought her of driving in her high heels and tight skirt, an hour to meet this guy on his turf (this guy who was pestering her to date him), was laughable.
Plus, she thought, he's older than me and of that generation that should appreciate chivalry, doesn't he get chivalry?
When she told him her area was better, he said: "OK, next time you are in my area, call me and we can meet."
Of course she ignored his email and she quickly emailed me, and we both were shocked.
A lot of men do complain that they can't get a girlfriend, but the reason is sometimes quite clear, when looking at it from afar. If this guy was too lazy to do the drive for a gorgeous hottie, I can't imagine what he is bringing to the table in a real relationship.
Anyhow, I'm sure you ladies have similar crazy stories. Feel free too share them with me by emailing me at firstname.lastname@example.org, where I personally read every email. And if you wish, let me know if I can share them (anonymously of course) on my Facebook fan page, where I also share "Online Dating Disasters" in a special album. Here is the link to my fan page below if you want to check it out.
Just remember, you aren't alone out there, women all over the world are having similar experiences. The thing is, if you stick it out, you may meet your Mr. Right online as so many of my clients are eventually meeting great guys online. Sometimes it takes perseverance, but like anything else you have to be in it to win it or else forget it.
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