Don't Make Excuses for Why a Guy is Not Asking You Out! (Lightbulb #12)
Even supermodels, and great catches have trouble with this concept and they get hurt, thinking "Why wouldn't a guy like me, 'I'm such a great gorgeous catch?'" Yes you probably are a great catch but you aren't everyone's cup of tea, no matter how hot or wonderful you are. Guys have types. Accept it and find the guy who wants your type. When a guy really like you, he will figure it out. That's the kind of guy you want to hold out for.
I used to make excuses myself, before the "lghtbub" turned on for me, and I realized that the guys who weren't pursing - the guys who didn't make it easy - were just not that interested. As a dating coach, I have heard so many excuses from women. They like a guy but he isn't asking them out, so they decide to ask him out because they think he needs a push. They think a variety of things: "He's too intimated by me" or "He's too shy," or "He's too damaged from his last relationship." I have heard it all. And 99.9 percent of the time, the real reason the guy wasn't making a first move was because he was not interested. He may have had a girlfriend, or wife, or was really into someone else. He may have liked the women, but not enough. They may not have been his type. Guys have types and the sooner women realize that, the better and easier their dating life will be. Everything will run smoother. Watch my lightbulb moment below, or go to my YouTube channel and watch it here: https://youtu.be/KXDY5xnGa9M
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