Radio hosts Chaz & AJ of 99.1 WPLR, the Howard Sterns of Connecticut, gave me a hard time this week about some advice I give in my book: A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know.

In the book, I teach women to weed out time wasters extremely fast, and one of the big ways is to wait 12 consecutive Saturday night dates to sleep with a man. Chaz & AJ went crazy over that bit of advice, telling me there's no way a guy will wait that long. However, a man who really likes you will wait. (And I think Chaz & AJ secretly agree with me).  I have to say, many of the men I interviewed for my book said that if they liked a woman enough, they would wait for when she is ready. 

Take a listen to our lively debate here. 

Now that I've written a dating book for women, friends are suggesting that I write a book for men. But I always say to them, "Men don't read relationship books."

I still believe there's truth in that statement. Though something unexpected happened when I published my dating book "A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know." 

Dads seem to be loving it.

A few former male colleagues, who have teenage daughters, have reached out to me and said they heard my radio interview this past week—where I told women to take it slow with men and wait at least 12 Saturday night dates to sleep with a man.

While the radio hosts were aghast, the former male colleagues appreciated my advice, which protects young women from Mr. Wrongs and helps them find Mr. Right.
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Yes, in this hook-up culture, 12 dates seems like a lot. But that dating guideline, along with many others—including making sure the man drives to your area for dates and that he pays for dates—gets my clients to the finish line faster. Not only that, these guidelines set in motion that essential chase, which makes dating a thrill for the man. It's a win-win situation.

If you have trouble receiving from a man—whether it’s letting him pay for dinner, accepting his love, or in other ways—you likely aren't in the relationship you deserve.

If you don’t respect the differences between men and women, and allow a man to court you,  a guy won’t insist on courting you. And when this happens, he’ll start treating you in a casual manner, more like an afterthought.

This isn't about being mean or nasty, or demanding a man treat you a certain way. You have high standards, but you behave in a feminine way, so a man wants to give to you. He wants to protect you. He wants to care for you. He wants to treat you like gold.

If your confidence has taken a hit and you feel like your best days are behind you, fret not. Every pot will find its lid. You’ll find that lid much faster if you become comfortable receiving. 

If you want more tips on how to accept a man's love, my book is filled with them. Sometimes, if you just take the right actions, your emotions will follow suit. 

"A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know" is available if you click here.

I wrote this book because many smart, successful, and beautiful women don’t understand men, which is why they aren't getting the results they want. If you want the fairy tale you’ve always dreamed about, you must learn to understand men and respect the differences between men and women.

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"If you want to know what men really want and to mesmerize Mr. Right, buy this book now! A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men will take you into the inner workings of the male mind so you get fabulous results!" - Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, authors of the New York Times bestseller The Rules

I want you all to be as giddy as my clients are about their love lives!

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Think short and sweet in your online dating encounters. 

Here's an example:
Bad Tinder Example: 

Still single at 32, just like that hot mess Bridget Jones, hoping to take a stab at online dating in case my Mr. Darcy shows up. 

Improved Tinder Example in pink below:

Chicago-based Renée Zellweger look-alike who plays pickleball, works out, and travels. I’m a lover of spy novels, and The Matrix is my all-time favorite movie. 
While the Bad Tinder Example is witty, it puts her down. The Improved Tinder Example is physically descriptive and lists basic fun and light information that isn’t too deep.

This is one of the examples you'll find in my dating book, A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know.
You'll also learn why less is more in other online scenarios and a whole host of ways to weed out time wasters and find Mr. Right. 

Get the book here: 
https://amzn.to/3qoK22F

To be a part of this book's discussion group on Facebook, send a reply email. We'll analyze each chapter, and I'll answer your burning questions.

xoxo, 

Karenna 


Initial Reviews: 
"If you want to know what men really want and to mesmerize Mr. Right, buy this book now! A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men will take you into the inner workings of the male mind so you get fabulous results!" -    Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, authors of the New York Times bestseller The Rules

Be careful what you wish for.
Sometimes that unattainable man - who you think would be perfect for you - is not your Mr. Right.
Did anyone have a crush on Governor Cuomo during the height of the pandemic, when he was leading news conferences daily?
I know of many women who did. Regardless of political party, they were calling themselves Cuomosexuals. They loved how in command he was of the situation. They loved his sense of humor and jokes. His take charge personality was a turn on. He seemed like a stand-up sensitive guy who respected women and would never make an unwanted advance. 
But underneath, he seemed to be hitting on twenty somethings in the workplace, which is sexual harassment. Most of us have been twentysomething - and many of you are - and for most women I know, it's very creepy when someone 40 years older hits on you. 
Sometimes women pine away for a man who looks great on the outside, but in reality, he's not all that wonderful at all.
Ladies, often times when you think you're missing out on something, you aren't at all.
This is not a political post whatsoever!
To learn how to weed out time wasters, pick up a copy of the recently released A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know. 

OLDEST TRICK IN THE BOOK:

Can you guess what it is? 

Chapter 1 in A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know is all about one specific way to weed out MAJOR time wasters, and there's one "trick" men use to get women to sleep with them.

Let's discuss! Email me, and. I'll email you back, I promise! 

Book is at 99 cents temporarily. Get it while you can:
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xoxo, 

Karenna 

Initial Reviews of the Book are GLOWING: 
"If you want to know what men really want and to mesmerize Mr. Right, buy this book now! A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men will take you into the inner workings of the male mind so you get fabulous results!" - Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, authors of the New York Times bestseller The Rules

Do you want to find Mr. Right? 

My new book A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men: Dating Secrets Most Women Don't Know will get you there.

Many smart, successful, and beautiful women don’t understand men, which is why they aren't getting the results they want. If you want the fairy tale you’ve always dreamed about, you must learn to understand men and respect the differences between men and women. 

"If you want to know what men really want and to mesmerize Mr. Right, buy this book now! A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men will take you into the inner workings of the male mind so you get fabulous results!" -  Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, authors of the New York Times bestseller The Rules

This book teaches you why men respond to modern courtship principles that give a man a challenge and create a spark that lays a foundation for a beautiful relationship. Men remember those first few months forever. Courtship is better for you and for the man you're dating. A man wants to feel something for the woman he's dating. He doesn't want to conquer you so easily.

These secrets teach you to:

• Weed out time wasters fast 
• Understand what men really want
• Grasp why courtship principles cause Mr. Right to treasure you
• Have boundaries without being a bitch
• Realize why less is always more
• See that men's actions are more important than words
• Understand that even models need a good dating strategy

And much more! 
I want you all to be as giddy as my clients are about their love lives!

Get it here https://amzn.to/3qaksOQ for 99 cents while you can!
For those who want to be part of a private Facebook group, where I discuss the chapters of the book and answer your dating questions, pm me or email me at karennaalexander@gmail.com
BONUS GOODIES:
If you write an honest review of the book, pm or email me to receive your special goodies, which include access to the Facebook group and a free MAN-ifesting Mr. Forever workbook (that sells for $29).

Since a man often won’t tell you it's over when it's over, you need to make sure you’re watching the signs. Good instincts can help if you learn to tune in, but here are some concrete signs to watch for so  you can tell when a man is pulling away:

• He prefers to be with his friends, instead of you, on Saturday night.
• He does see you every Saturday night, but never talks about a future with you in it.
• He skips your birthday, Valentine’s Day, and avoids spending special occasions with you.
• He never buys you romantic gifts or any gifts for holidays, or he only buys you practical gifts, like a blender. 
• For your birthday, he says he wants to take you away for the weekend, on a fishing trip with his friends. He has no idea whether you like fishing or not.
• He disrespects you, calling you names and picking fights.
• He never introduces you to close family members or friends.
• He doesn’t want to treat you to dinner or insists you split the bill.
• He insists you drive to his area for the date. Or at least meet halfway.
• He tells you he sees no future together.
• He talks incessantly about his ex-girlfriend who left him for a professional athlete and how she broke his heart.

There are many more ways to tell whether you are with Mr. Right or not, and I include them in my new book that will be released this month. Stay tuned for how to purchase the book.